Me and my friend had an intimate moment earlier and right now he’s asking if his was the first one I touched.
Do guys get mad when they find out that he wasn’t your first?
And he says I was his first.
Thank you for everyone's support and concern.
But just to clear things up, I don't plan on losing my virginity until after marriage. I'm pretty well-educated and the consequences of sex scare me (or at least make me postpone sex).
Thank you to everyone!
I ended up telling him he wasn't the first, and he didn't get mad =)
If only I could choose more than one Best Answer.
I'll leave that choice in your hands.
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14 responses so far ↓
1 I KnoW // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
Nope the more the better ;).
2 Nebula Prophet // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
some would, others wont. are you the first he touched? if not, then he probably won’t get mad
3 helos13 // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
no but young guys with low self esteem usually want to be everyones first.. the older you get you realize that girls with a bit more experience are the best. odds are if he’s asking you that he’s one of the young ones and you’re probably young too. be honest and please be safe.
4 kro // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
Nope, I actually prefer a girl with some experience so she know what she is doing.
5 rebornpheonix // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
I don’t think he will care. I wouldn’t.
6 joshua b // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
No, most guys ask history questions because it helps them learn more about you. Everyone wants to know how much experience their partner has had . The best thing to do is be honest. Depending on your age, and experience, a discussion about relationship history can encourage honesty and understanding.
7 jace // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
he might get a bit disappointed. boys tend to be more sensitive when it comes to “sex” with someone he really want to please and love.
8 James C // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
if he does get mad the boy is an idiot, if he dont he is cool
9 Persona non grata // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
The trick is, you always tell every guy, that he is the first, ever.
10 Steve // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
if hes young, en-experienced, or insecure then yes otherwise he shouldnt be too worried about it. if you think he will just tell him it was. sure its a lie but its in his best interest and please, please, please be safe and use protection for you and him and anyone else in the future
11 bender_xr217 // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
I suppose it all depends on whether this guy is the jealous type or not, your best bet, for better or worse, is to just be honest. Otherwise you’re setting yourself up for a argument in the future.
12 Mari_A. // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
Musn't touch any more penises.
You are slutty.
13 Scott R // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
Some would. It depends on the guy.
14 stimystamingya // Dec 3, 2008 at 2:20 am
He shouldn’t have asked in the first place, it’s none of his business what you’ve done in the past. If he got mad when you told him that’s his problem not yours.
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