Sexual Ask

15 responses so far ↓

• 1 Joe H // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Your too used to ur hand…lol

• 2 missymyshock // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  I don’t actually have the answer to your question, but I’m glad someone is asking this. Because I’m gonna be 16 soon, and any info I can read on this stuff helps a lot =]

• 3 daisyfacelol // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Teach him what you like and what to do.

• 4 Backhoe // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  need a guy that knows how to take u over the edge

• 5 Magda // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Nothing is wrong with you. Try doing what you do masturbating with his penis. Or you take control.

• 6 ~v~ // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  try to relax
  ask him to stimulate you with his
  fingers b4 putting it in

• 7 NanZzangEya.3 // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Nothing’s wrong with you, a lot of girls are like that.

• 8 SexiiPrincess // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Well maybe hes just not pleasing you! Have him do oral sex to you more often!? Maybe he has a “little one” and will never give you one! But nothings is wrong with you! =]

• 9 Sandi ♥ // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  get on top that way you can do what feels good for you

  http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq.Zlmj3Dd0wx0Bf0LfIszbsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081005212821AA3IuqW

• 10 Ms Cherry Garcia // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  There’s nothing wrong with you. most women don’t experience one at all. So it’s normal not to have one. All men are not created equal, same goes for women. You should try experimenting with him, meaning lots of foreplay, touching. Just because you don’t have an orgasm doesn’t mean you can enjoy the sex.

• 11 leslies317537 // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  I didn’t have an orgasm either for over a year. Pick your favorite position and stimulate yourself while having intercourse. I have one every time now.

• 12 Nymphetamine~girl // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Alot of girls do not have orgasms during the actual act of sex becouse they are not being stimulated enough, when you do forplay and such you get alot of stimulation becouse he can please you easier becouse he can do more than a couple things at a time Lol…

  Its not abnormal to hear about something like this..

• 13 cangel // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Been there done that was 29 before had my first O, and I just turned 30 this sept so it is still new to me.
  It is mental, try have him do oral on you longer, try to be relaxed and focused on each other (take a shower together first) then have him give you a nice back massage.
  an nice long foreplay, lots of kissing, caressing, and don't focus on nothing but the moment at hand, when you are having sex, maybe take the lead and get on top so you are in control of the movement, so he can hit your g-spot more than once. Try doggy style it also works well. Just take your time and don't worry too much, have a clear, relaxed mind, and the rest will come. Trust me the O is soooooo worth it.

  If he don't like oral, then tell him neither do you. He can get a flavored lube if he is afraid of the taste, or use a flavored dental dam. Just tell him if you don't do me then I ain't doing you

  Get him a book sex for dummies, tell him that you want to try new things and it will make for a better sex life. An that it is okay to experiment as long as it is with you. That if it does not work then you will try a different position.
  If he still refuses to do anything to make sure your needs are met then you have a selfish lover and you need to move on.

• 14 doshiealan // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  Many women are unable to reach orgasm with penetrative sex alone.

  This is because the place of maximum sensitivity - the clitoris - is not actually in the vagina but just outside. This means that the clitoris may not be stimulated by the thrusting penis in the same way as it can be stimulated by manual masturbation.

  Try training your partner to stimulate your G-spot (which is just inside the vagina) with the head of his penis from time to time during intercourse, or get him to bring you to orgasm (one way or another) before penetration. Once you have had one orgasm during a sexual encounter, it’s much easier to have another one shortly thereafter. Women are very fortunate in being able to have multiple orgasms within a few moments of one another. You can use this fact to give you the satisfaction you seek.

• 15 gambitgrrl // Oct 7, 2008 at 4:20 am

  There’s nothing wrong with you.

  Not really wanting to get too personal, but how do you masturbate? Is it just clitoral stimulation, or do you use something to penetrate?

  Probably as much as 15 percent of the female population have never experience an orgasm, and there may be up to 10 percent who can only orgasm when masturbating alone. The majority of women can orgasm with their partners, but only when the men are rubbing or licking their clitorises, or the women are “buzzing off” with a vibrator.

  Only about 30 percent of women will orgasm during intercourse. That means that about 70 percent of women have never, and might never, get off with penile-vaginal stimulation alone.

  No one really knows why it is that some women can’t climax. Some reasons are psychological, some physiological.

  You might try some new things with your partner. Have him stimulate your clitoris more, or find some kind of toy you can use during intercourse and see if you can climax then.

  There are products on the market that might be of interest to try as well. The website below (Divine Romance) has really good products! I highly recomend checking them out.

  One product called Oh! is supposed to help you reach orgasm faster and even help you to have mutliples!

  http://www.divineromance.net/shopping/shopping.php

  And one is called Be Snug.
  http://www.divineromance.net/shopping/shopping.php

  I haven’t personally used these, but I have been told by friends that they work really well, and I’ve used other products sold by Divine Romance and have been very satisfied!

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