I am a girl and it seems like I can never get off.. I’m an 18 year old virgin and I masturbate semi-frequently, but it seems like the more I do it, the longer it takes and the less stimulation I get. What can I do to make this feel better? When I have sex will it feel good? Am I becoming desensitized by too much masturbation? Help cus I haven’t been able to actually get off in a while, please.
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13 responses so far ↓
1 Sean // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
depends… you do know that a man can’t make his penis vibrate right?
2 Bob // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Hmmmm….. I need more information. send me a video, pronto.
3 Dani Vonne // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
I’m a soon to be 18 year old who is a virgin. i found masturbation does desensitize things after a while. I don’t get wet if I do it semi-often. Just have to learn to cut back and only use it wen extremely necessary.
4 HOTTT // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
I have no idea but I bet actually having sex will still be really good
5 Gumbo Jimmy // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Its when you start to see bruises, discoloration and calouses that you may need to be concerned. But hell, even then, its not like youre going to stop now, is it? Wankings harder to give up than cigarettes.
6 Sexy Anna // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
your doing it to much then and yes you are ruining it for your REAL sex life. If your SO used to doing it yourself HE won’t stand a chance trust me BTDT.
7 trueChristian // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
You do realize that Masturbation is a Sin? Maybe you should think about God before you think about pleasure.
8 faithlyfabulous // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
The more you do it, the more you will get used to only getting off that way. I would consider that you should stop for awhile. Because when the time comes when you do have sex, the guy won’t be able to please you because you’re so used to doing it yourself.
9 Yi J // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Well, you’re not desensitizing yourself exactly. You’re just turned on less by the same thing than you were before.
It’s no big deal. If you want to go back to being turned on easily, just don’t masturbate for a while. No, it’s not going to really change how you feel during sex. In fact, women masturbating actually helps them feel better during sex because they already comprehend how they like to be pleased. Sex is VERY different from masturbation so don’t worry about it. 
If you want to get off still, try doing different things to make yourself horny. ^_^
10 KT // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
YES YOU HAVE DEAR !! SO HAVE I !! IT IS POSSIBLE BUT WE CAN RECOVER AFTER NOT DOING IT FOR AWHILE !! GOOD LUCK !! ITS FREE ( GERMS/$$ )!!
11 missdarlene // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
I wouldn’t say desensitizing.. more like over tizing.. ha. Um. I wish astroglide was sold in the gallon size. pureromance.com has some cool stuff. I’d challenge yourself to see how long you can go without doing it. Watch the movie 45 days. It’s awesome!
12 Wadduuuppp?! // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
get off yer butt and fuck real guys then ya gonna forget about doing SOLOs lol
13 K // Nov 30, 2008 at 12:20 pm
If I do it every day it takes me longer and longer, but if I wait like a week I get it back. Too much routine is bad when it comes to masturbation.
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