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is masturbation gay?

December 2nd, 2008 · 33 Comments

ohkay my friend charlene was thinking, and she figures that masturbation is gay. Ok, well my friend Nick doesnt think it is.
Charlenes point of view:
Guys like pussy but they go home and play w/ their own penis. What is the point of that?? Most guys think that guys who play with other penis’ are gay, but if you think about it, they play with their own, so shouldnt that be considered gay too?????
Aaron’s point of view:
If your horny you just cant help it. If your sitting there all alone you have to do something when your horny.

So answer this, is masturbation gay??????????
Charlene says:
Just because everyone does it, that doesnt mean its not gay. Not EVERYONE in our total population does it. I dont do it. And every guy is homophobic but then when it comes down to it, all guys are a little bisexual.
ohkay u can be masturbating and thinking about the opposite sex, but you are still playing with YOUR OWN junk!! if ur a girl, ur still play with a pussy. nd if ur a guy then ur still playing with a dick… kinda bisexual rite???
this conversation is about MASTURBATION, not RAPE………!
using a vibrator does NOT make you gay, were saying that a girl fingering herself is gay, cause she is suppose to love the penis but she uses her fingers???….. nd a guy jacking off is gay cuz he is suppose to love the pussy, but he uses his hand….. they are touching themselves…..

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    Tags: Masturbation

    33 responses so far ↓

    • 1 David B // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      everybody in this is thinking too much. Guess it would depend on what you visualize while you’re doing it.

    • 2 Micaela P // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      No not at all.
      I personally think its gross and nasty.
      But alot of people do it, so no its not gay

    • 3 xTheRocinate // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Id say that everyones a little bisexual =D

    • 4 Bub // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Only if you do it to another person of the same sex as you. Peace.

    • 5 One Day // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      you mean so the question is, is masturbation gay? and No, its not gay….

    • 6 LSBN // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      If that were the case then the entire population would be gay.

      L

    • 7 Cassie N // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      I don’t think it’s gay…..because it’s your own body. Just think if it is gay….every single Man in the world would be gay.

    • 8 ddcgirl146 // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      pshh no

    • 9 YERIKA // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      NOP its not its ur own pleasure

    • 10 GeminiVirgo1971 // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      no

    • 11 speak to me my child // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      dumbest question ever the question is very obvious look up masturbastion and u will find it is definitly not gay lol wow ur friend charlene doesnt have all the lights on upstairs does she

    • 12 Bl♥ndy // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      it is completely natural, and healthy. think about how grumpy the world would be if people didn’t do it!

    • 13 « •*`·.Jëññië.·`*• » // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Uh, no it does not make you gay.
      When someone is masturbating they are not typically thinking of themselves. ;)
      A man could be watching porn, girl/guy, or girl/girl, he is not getting off to himself or the thought of a male.

      So no, it’s not. o.O

    • 14 TJ/MEST // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Nope. Not at all. Infact i bet your friend charlene is masturbating right now.

    • 15 lolrotflmaorotf // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      no it’s not gay, it is bliss

    • 16 kumorifox // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      No, masturbation is not gay. It is something everyone does, whether they admit it or not.

      I agree with Aaron. When you’re horny you just can’t help it.

    • 17 Kristen W // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Ummmm…
      nooooooooo…. i dont think so…. self pleasure is normal when you cant get any ;)

    • 18 swot // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      no, it’s universal.

    • 19 R W // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Of course masturbation isn’t gay! It’s natural, any one hasn’t tried it out before is a liar. Some people do it when they’re bored or feel horny. I know some boys just do it when they’re bored. Don’t listen to your friend Charlene she hasn’t thought it through properly. She’ll probably do it one day even if she doesn’t admit it.
      So there… maturbation isn’t gay

    • 20 girl123 // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      martins point of view…
      1. its my own!!!! i cant be gay with myself god dammit
      2. hornyness is natural and perfectly okay in my book
      3. i say do it allllll day evvvvvvaaaarrrryyyyydaaaaaayyyyuuuuuhhhh

      holla if you need help with your masterbation ;)
      heres my numba…
      1

    • 21 Benji // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Short answer: No.
      Without addressing both of your friends’ points of view, I’d simply quote Gloria Steinhem: “95% of all people masturbate, and the other 5% lied when they said they don’t.”
      Pretty much true, in my experience. Regardless of sexual orientation.

    • 22 Red Riding Hood // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      no! u can be masturbating and thinking about the opposite sex!

    • 23 the man // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      If the guy is thinking of doing a dude while doing it, then he’s gay. If he’s thinking of doing a woman, then he’d be straight. That’s how I see it anyway.

    • 24 Ruby // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Masturbation is a normal human action. I am sure that since the dawn of time, even the cave men and woman masturbated. ” Hm, ug - tug…that feel good”! C’mon, how in the world does that have anything to do with your sexual preference? It doesn’t. Just means your human, and fyi, it is the safest form of sex known to humans. No pregnancy or diseases there.

    • 25 katanasting // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      I don’t know…maybe your friend doesn’t think RAPE is ‘gay’? After all, the Bible supposedly doesn’t approve of masturbation, but forcing women to have sex against their will? No biggie.

      So how would that fly now? Would it be better then letting people “take care of themselves?”

      Plus, girls play with their vajayjays as much as guys do with their Johnsons, and if your friend swears up and down that she doesn’t, dump her as a friend because she’s a bald-faced LIAR. Everyone’s done it at least once, and they SHOULD probably do it on a regular basis. The world would probably be a much better place for it.

      After all, it’s free, it’s easy, you can do it in the privacy of your own home without having to ask anyone’s permission, and you can do it anytime (as long as you keep it to yourself…unless there’s a friend who WANTS to be there with you to watch or lend a ‘helping hand.’)

      And best of all…you can never get STD’s from it, and nobody gets pregnant. So tell your friend to chew on THAT for a while.

    • 26 ???? // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      masturbation is only gay if they do it while thinking of the same sex

    • 27 Travelin Pete // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      All adult guys do it, and a lot of women. If they deny it they are lying.

    • 28 Johnny // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Depends what your thinking about….

    • 29 Dr.FeelGood // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      If you masturbate it has nothing to do with being gay! Masturbation is good for you it helps relive stress. I’m married have a great sex life but I still masturbate once n awhile.Maybe Charlene has gay or bi feelings and that’s what she thinks about when she masturbates. So she feels like everyone thinks that way too.

    • 30 ♥ßré♥ // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      lol almost EVERYONE does it…and no it doesn’t make you gay…thats retarded. does using a vibrator make you gay?…no, it doesn’t…your just horny and trying to get off….nothing wrong with that.

    • 31 Jon S // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      Just the fact that it is your own private areas you are “playing with” makes it fine and definitely not gay. Say if you were touching and playing with someone of your own gender’s penis or vagina, that should be perceived as gay. I mean it is not like your own parts turn you on, but it is your own thoughts that turn you on. I disagree with all boys being homophobic and all boys being a little bisexual as I am not homophobic and have a few gay friends but I would never think of having sex with another male. I have a lesbian friend that really likes to masturbate, I mean REALLY likes to, but she only just discovered that she herself went for the same sex. She has told me before that while masturbating she always thought more of girls and her own body turned her on.

    • 32 Cool Dude // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      I think you’re wasting too much time thinking about this subject. Everyone masturbates. Most people aren’t homosexual. Being gay is being attracted to members of your own sex and not to the opposite sex. It’s who you are, not what you do. Masturbating is just a normal response to your body’s hormones trying to get you to have sex, whoever your partner of choice may be.

      Why don’t you spend your time debating things that really matter, like who’s going to win the Super Bowl or the Cup Final?

    • 33 Estian // Dec 2, 2008 at 9:20 am

      not gay its perfectly normal because you choose to visualise having sex with the opposite gender but choose to substitute their tools for some thing else such as your hand…

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