I am 17 years old, and i’ve been sexually active for about a year, but in that whole time i have never had an orgasm. I know i’m doing it right, but it’s…just not working. And it’s really really frustrating.
It’s like i have no feeling down there at all. When my boyfriend, you know, goes down on me, it feels good, yes, but that’s it. I don’t really get immense pleasure out of it. And i do come, but i just don’t feel it happening.
I am really confused, and i would appreciate anyone who can give me any advice.
Thank you. x x
Related posts:
3 responses so far ↓
1 Taffi // Nov 9, 2008 at 10:20 am
You said you’ve never had an orgasm, but that you come, but you just don’t feel it happeneing. Honey, if you’ve never had an orgasm, you’ve never cum. And by what you’ve said, I’m certain you’ve never had an orgasm because when you do, it’s fantastic!
You need to be comfortable with your own body, and sometimes it takes a while. If I were you, I’d invest in a vibrator and go at it alone. Take the time to explore your own body and find your hot buttons. Once you can do this on your own, you can help your boyfriend out by directing him to exactly the right position. It’s really all about being able to relax and enjoy the experience.
2 Sarah // Nov 9, 2008 at 10:20 am
Masturbate. You have to explore yourself and find what gets you off. Your boyfriend isn’t going to be able to help you until you figure it out.
3 Jim B // Nov 9, 2008 at 10:20 am
Try having one on your own (learn to masturbate to an orgasm) Then you can show your boyfriend what to do. Don’t concentrate on penetration. Instead, focus on your clitoris. Very few women can orgasm from penetration
Leave a Comment