I have only been intimate twice. But I haven’t had an orgasm or any pleasure what-so-ever.I HAVE NOT told my boyfriend. He would just be petrified. What do I do, When I have sex I want to experience some sense of pleasure
I am very very very Careful I love this guy so much, we have been going out fo moe than a year. I don't plan to be intamate with anyone else untill I get married. Oh and anothe thing, what is the best type of condom to use?
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11 responses so far ↓
1 Lainey // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Some girls are not developed enough in their teens to experience orgasm. You may just have to wait till you are 18-20 before your body is ready for that.
2 SomeGirl101 // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
idk>?
3 `*•.(`*•.♥ Taylor ♥.•*´).•*` // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
You will. When you’re old enough to be doing that kind of thing. Until then, it sucks.
♥ Taylor
4 Irene // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
At the risk of encouraging you to have more sex and endanger your heath (not to mention morality), I’m just going to suggest that you stop and wait until you’re older. Part of the reason is more than likely that he’s young and inexperienced, like you, so he may not know just how to please you.
You’re still young - wait until you’re an adult and you can give your heart to your husband/significant other!
5 laydeeforever // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Well obviously you’re not old enough and you should stop being sexually active or else you’ll get HIV or some disease before you are old enough to actually enjoy it.
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6 Anita F // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
i think the only way u will get this is if u do it yourself. most of us girls have our first orgasm by ourselves. i know it sounds funny but it’s true. a man can’t plz u if u dont understand ur body. btw 2 times lol
7 bugginme // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
have you masterbated and tried to figure you what YOU like? some women can only have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation, some women need a lot of foreplay, etc the best advice i have is try some things on yourself and see what you like, then suggest it to your bf. if you're not comfortable with that, then make it fun by saying to your boyfriend "wanna try THIS?" and take it slowly and experiment on each other.
8 Jessica // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Most teenage girls will not have an orgasm. You most likely won’t even get one until your 20’s. What you can do to find pleasure though is find your g-spot (stick your finger into your vagina, palm up, curl your finger and you’ll find a rough spot on the wall of your vagina, that’s the g-spot) and you’ll find that it is sensitive. You can eventually learn to move in a way so the penis rubs against that spot on the wall of the vagina. You can also get him to do clitoral stimulation as well. Don’t worry about the orgasm part though. Most women don’t get them until later on.
9 Kristen H // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
I have a few suggestions for you:
First, masturbate and find what touches and where it feels good on your body.
When being intimate with your boyfriend, tell him where you want him to touch you by saying, “Oh, I love it when you touch me here.” and guide his hand/mouth/penis to where you’d like it.
Also, make sure you are properly turned on before engaging in vaginal intercourse. If you’re not wet or properly lubricated and relaxed, penetration will be uncomfortable and not pleasurable.
So basically, tell him where you’d like to be touched, and he’ll do it if he wants to please you.
10 EROS7776 // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Don’t panic, because many girls do not experience orgasm until they are in their twenties and some never do. The best advise I can give you is to learn about your own body through sexual experimentation and masturbating. Once you learn what feels good, you can convey it to him and he can also make you feel good. I am much older than you and can promise that you will learn to have orgasms and you will enjoy sex. Very few women have orgasm through sexual intercourse. It usually comes for women through external manipulation of her clitoris. If you will email me through Answers I will give you a website that might answer all of your questions that I don’t think I can answer on here.
You will learn and be okay.
11 oklatonola // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:20 pm
It’s not your fault. If you aren’t already aroused, by something you’ve read or seen, or your monthly hormone cycles, it takes a lot longer for a woman to be aroused than a man. It’s called foreplay. Don’t let your boyfriend get away with a “slam, bam, thank you ma’am” technique. It should be about each of you “pleasuring” each other, not his testosterone-induced lust being satisfied.
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