The only way that masturbation would be bad is if it interfered with other parts of your life in a negative way… ie not being able to control yourself in public.
Masturbation is a completely normal and healthy act.
Nope, its perfectly natural. The worst you can possibly do to yourself is either give your self something similar to rug burn because of dryness, OR some sort of acne if you happened to have dirty hands at the time because you’d be rubbing the dirt in.
No. Everyone does it. EVERYONE. Your granny, your father, your siblings, your teachers, your friends, your neighbors. EVERYONE. Anyone who says they don’t masturbate is a liar.
Your body belongs to you. It’s up to you to determine what you enjoy sexually. Pleasing yourself is your god-given right. ENJOY!
No it's not harmful and just about every body does it some time or rather. You are safe and can't catch any diseases, by doing it yourself.
6no but yah but no but yah // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
Masturbation is healthy. It’s as natural as scratching an itch, blowing ones nose or laughing at a joke. For women it helps keep the kegel muscles in shape so when they have a baby birth will be easier and recovery time will be faster. Also, women who masturbate regularly will not experience bladder leakage problems when they get older. For males, it keeps the testicles and prostate gland active and by promoting good blood flow. Testicular and prostate cancer are very common amongst males Blood has oxygen in it, and that will keep the reproductive organs healthier, in both men and women. Also, it is a great way to avoid unplanned pregnancy by doing that instead of intercourse.
At your age you may overdo it, if not an elderly man like me advise you in absentia, that is you should wait for an erection instead of force stimulation. It can be rubbing your cork against your thighs or running over your fingers if you are really excited by a porn or live scene. If somebody keeps you aroused by touch or embrace or caress or hugging etc., -like that may happen in friendly relationships where the other person may not sexually inclined but you are- you may after a while feel aroused. You can go to an isolated place for a catharsis but you must be slow and steady, if you are too busy with a schedule, don't try immediately. No need for remorse then, like enlarged prostate, however there is no evidence to prove that though there are theories floating around without a substantial proof yet to come as nobody is sure since the functionig of prostate is still in research stage!
the earlier you start the healthier you’ll be mentally… and physically… more mentally than physically though…
there is nothing wrong at all with this… just be respectful of when and where you choose to do this… the wrong time or place could be unhealthy… especially if it gets out of hand…
one thing to watch out for, though, is the desire to try different lotions/soaps/whatever else you may think is awesomely lubricative…
trust me… some things will make your pee-pee dry up and flake and peel and… ow… its a terrible mess for 3-4 days after the nice adventure… you’ve been warned… (and these situations would be deemed unhealthy…)
any mention of it harming your health is just a scam to make you feel guilty for masturbating, espeically in the catholic/strongly religous environment… where sex before marriage is sacreligious.
be careful.. just cuz it feels nice doesn’t mean you can share it already with other peopel… wait til your 16 or 17 to experiment with other people…
a little tip… the more you masturbate.. and the more creative you are with it (granted you don’t come across some flake-creating lotion or cream)… the more you know what you like… and what you don’t like… which is half the battle when you have sex for the first time… if you can conquer what you like… you can intently focus on your significant other… which will greatly increase their pleasure… making you more of a sex idol god thing than if you decided to jump in the sex-world right away just cuz you know that something feels good when you do something…
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1 Lauren // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
No, its totally normal.
2 gypsy_5_0 // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
Not at all!
The only way that masturbation would be bad is if it interfered with other parts of your life in a negative way… ie not being able to control yourself in public.
Masturbation is a completely normal and healthy act.
3 pstockton // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
Nope, its perfectly natural. The worst you can possibly do to yourself is either give your self something similar to rug burn because of dryness, OR some sort of acne if you happened to have dirty hands at the time because you’d be rubbing the dirt in.
4 Andrea // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
No. Everyone does it. EVERYONE. Your granny, your father, your siblings, your teachers, your friends, your neighbors. EVERYONE. Anyone who says they don’t masturbate is a liar.
Your body belongs to you. It’s up to you to determine what you enjoy sexually. Pleasing yourself is your god-given right. ENJOY!
5 onemadgirl // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
No it's not harmful and just about every body does it some time or rather. You are safe and can't catch any diseases, by doing it yourself.
6 no but yah but no but yah // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
Masturbation is healthy. It’s as natural as scratching an itch, blowing ones nose or laughing at a joke. For women it helps keep the kegel muscles in shape so when they have a baby birth will be easier and recovery time will be faster. Also, women who masturbate regularly will not experience bladder leakage problems when they get older. For males, it keeps the testicles and prostate gland active and by promoting good blood flow. Testicular and prostate cancer are very common amongst males Blood has oxygen in it, and that will keep the reproductive organs healthier, in both men and women. Also, it is a great way to avoid unplanned pregnancy by doing that instead of intercourse.
7 masseur // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
At your age you may overdo it, if not an elderly man like me advise you in absentia, that is you should wait for an erection instead of force stimulation. It can be rubbing your cork against your thighs or running over your fingers if you are really excited by a porn or live scene. If somebody keeps you aroused by touch or embrace or caress or hugging etc., -like that may happen in friendly relationships where the other person may not sexually inclined but you are- you may after a while feel aroused. You can go to an isolated place for a catharsis but you must be slow and steady, if you are too busy with a schedule, don't try immediately. No need for remorse then, like enlarged prostate, however there is no evidence to prove that though there are theories floating around without a substantial proof yet to come as nobody is sure since the functionig of prostate is still in research stage!
8 sally // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
IF Masturbation did affect ones health there wouldn’t be enough hospitals to go around , they’d be absolutely FULL to BURSTING POINT
9 zeek // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
the earlier you start the healthier you’ll be mentally… and physically… more mentally than physically though…
there is nothing wrong at all with this… just be respectful of when and where you choose to do this… the wrong time or place could be unhealthy… especially if it gets out of hand…
one thing to watch out for, though, is the desire to try different lotions/soaps/whatever else you may think is awesomely lubricative…
trust me… some things will make your pee-pee dry up and flake and peel and… ow… its a terrible mess for 3-4 days after the nice adventure… you’ve been warned… (and these situations would be deemed unhealthy…)
any mention of it harming your health is just a scam to make you feel guilty for masturbating, espeically in the catholic/strongly religous environment… where sex before marriage is sacreligious.
be careful.. just cuz it feels nice doesn’t mean you can share it already with other peopel… wait til your 16 or 17 to experiment with other people…
a little tip… the more you masturbate.. and the more creative you are with it (granted you don’t come across some flake-creating lotion or cream)… the more you know what you like… and what you don’t like… which is half the battle when you have sex for the first time… if you can conquer what you like… you can intently focus on your significant other… which will greatly increase their pleasure… making you more of a sex idol god thing than if you decided to jump in the sex-world right away just cuz you know that something feels good when you do something…
huh? hope that mkaes sense…
10 Novacaine // Dec 2, 2008 at 5:20 am
Nah, Wack away!!!
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