i just turned 16 and aparently im good looking and have a realy nice body i have hooked up with like 3 girls but havnt had sex yet but whenever i masturbate i only last like 2-3 mins is it the same with sex because lasting 2-3 mins in sex would be embarrising.
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1 proud 2b awesome 3000 // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
masturbating 5 - 15 minutes.
sex 30 minutes - 2 hours.
2 justsomerandomguy // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
nothing is wrong…premature ejaculation is very common among teenagers…there are three factors that determine masturbation time..
mindset: if you try and think about something else, then you will last longer..
position: standing up makes you last longer when masturbating…
speed/quickness: if you stroke quickly with intent to ejaculate quickly then odds are it won’t take long…take long strokes, and combined with the other two factors you’ll be a ten minute man in no time
3 Mikey123 // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
Nahh, because you will take it slow with sex
or hopefully you will.. if you go fast or whatever then your probally gna last the 2-3 mins..
try thinking about somthing else to make it last longer
or clentch it in.. if she is going or wants to go fast she will probally relase the same as you aswell…
hope this helps
4 DEAN // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
You can last longer during sex.
5 mamamia // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
you will be fine… but later on in life yes 2-3 minutes
6 thosewerethedays // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
How long you last is up to you. Try not to be in such a hurry to get to the payoff. Stop and start again frequently, go slower, let your mind wander to new fantasies. Sometimes rushing matters can be a habit that’s hard to break. If it really is a matter of your having a hair trigger of sorts, when you do have intercourse (no rush on that, Dude, no matter how willing your honeys may be ), there are creams available with a mild anesthetic you can use to make your penis less sensitive so that it takes longer to reach orgasm.
7 Space // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
When I masturbate to really good porn:2-5 minutes
Sex:can go on endlessly.
Space.
8 Jill // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
It’s not how long it lasts it’s the quality of the sex that matters good foreplay beats half an hours humping any day by the way Masters and Johnson the people who do the sex research say that penetration on average lasts for approx 90 seconds ( It’s just men who think it lasts longer)
9 hoagrawal // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
This problem is temporary and fully curable and you need not to worry about this problem. Psychological factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem, and fear of sexual failure cause are the major factors of such type of problem. Your partner can help with gradual development of intimacy and stimulation. Such techniques also can help relieve anxiety, fear and other psychological factors and change the mood.
However if you want to increase the time you will have to learn to focus on gradual training and improving mental habituation to sex and physical development of stimulation control. One ebook names as ejaculation trainer claim to end premature ejaculation within 1-4 week
with 97% success rate & eight week money back guarantee.
10 Ice Tea Queen // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
Masterbating ive been told can be like 5mins-15mins. If you hold it longer and if your really horney shorter.
Sex the first time wont last long at all, after you get used to it, you can last longer.
And masterbating will take longer after you have experienced sex.
11 the_crazyvincent // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
Prolly masterbation cuz u cant pelvic thrust as fast as u can move ur hand up and down.
12 Hiedi R // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
ok i am a woman and i am going to answer this as honest as i can! when you masturbate it is all about you not about you and someone else!
i can masturbate in a matter of about 2 mins BUT with a partner sometimes actually have a hard time having an orgasm now men and women are completely different!
but as long as you are thinking about your partner and sex it’s not all about you then i should (i hope) last longer! if for some reason you have a hard time holding back, stop. go back to foreplay and make sure that she is having a good time too! women are extremely complicated in fact i will tell you that some days my hubby of 10 years don’t quite know what to do because for women what feels good today may not feel good tomorrow! i know women are crazy but that just part of our charm!
good luck!
13 QandA4 // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
i can cum in 30 sec by self it takes me minimum 20 min to cum with a partner.
14 Cal Jones // Aug 30, 2008 at 1:20 am
Duration is one of the great challenges for a young man. I like to say that when we are young, the male is wound so tight he climax almost instantly; the female is so tight she takes for ever to relax enough to climax. It’s the way the two systems are built. The average amount of time spent during sex will vary widely depending on who you believe, even among credible sources. Some research cites a length of time between 3 and 10 minutes, others are anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour, and then there are those who claim the time frame is much lower, at around 2 minutes. The difficulty in getting consistent information is that the time interval is not always clearly defined (e.g. does foreplay count?), or that people have trouble remembering or being objective about just how long things took. Plus, a societal average may not necessarily mean that much in the end, even if it could be determined. Couples have different preferences that work for them, and moods and circumstances may allow for more or less time depending on the occasion. Although premature ejaculation is thought to affect up to a third of men under the age of 25, it usually goes away with time, experience, and achieving a level of comfort with sex and your partner. To help prolong sex try slowing down the pace, experimenting with different positions and taking deep, relaxed breaths. Focus on extending foreplay through kissing and massage, which can excite your partner without intercourse. Contrary to persistent myths, masturbation is not a cause of premature ejaculation. In fact, it’s the other way around: masturbating a few hours before sex is a good way to prolong ejaculation later on. The real causes of premature ejaculation are often fear and anxiety about sexual performance. Ironically, this stems from the belief that says men should be able have sex endlessly. Pure feats of endurance have little to do with sex itself, and most women do not find such behavior alluring anyway. After all, that’s why sport has given us the extreme marathon, the cricket match and televised golf.
For me the best thing I could do when I was young was the ladies first principle: make sure my partner had a orgasm before I came usually by way of the second principle “ICS” or it’s the Clitoris, Stupid. At about thirty five more or less it seems the sexes meet: the male can last long enough for the woman to climax and the woman can climax within a reasonable time. Condoms also helped me last longer as well as their other benefit: I liked the natural lamb skin for feeling but they are expensive. As I have gotten older, I note I can out last the female. That is, for the male duration increases with age. One for the oldsters.
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