I was never taught masturbation in schools. But I was one of those fortunate ones who went to a school that taught abstenance only. Worked out great for our family, all of my sisters got pregnant before hitting 18 as did half of the cheerleading squad. Huh, maybe those pro sex education people have a point?
No But if u need to know how to masturbation hear how.
Make time for more than a quickie.
Most guys first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t trying to finish quick before someone interrupts.
Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune into your body.
Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of guys do, and while porn can be great, it also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you from what’s actually happening in your body. You don’t need to throw the porn away, but for a few times, masturbate without porn, and objectify yourself for a change!
Do a…dry…run through.
Bad pun aside, it’s a good idea to try the above suggestions, and then just masturbate as you normally would. As you do this pay attention:
Changes in your breathing: Does it become shallow and quick, slower and deeper?
Changes in your body: is there tension in some places, and relaxation in others? Is this the same every time you masturbate?
How does it feel just before you have an orgasm?
How does it feel as you orgasm, and immediately post-orgasm?
Time to switch it up.
Men learn early in their lives the most effective way to get themselves off. And most never waver from the utilitarian approach to self love. But sex is less like a well oiled machine, and more like a chaotic food fair, where there is an endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetites. So it’s time to throw a wrench in the works and shake up your routine. Try any combination of the following suggestions:
Does your left hand know what your right hand is doing?
Do you always use the same one hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If you’re among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be off, it’s almost like sex with someone new for the first time. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an old hand some tricks.
Experiment with positions.
If you aren’t an experimental type, it’s time to start. If you’re used to masturbating lying down on your back, try sitting up. If you normally sit in a chair, try standing, or kneeling. As with all these changes, this might feel ridiculous at first, and you’ll probably go back to old faithful, but see what masturbation feels like in different positions, and notice if it brings with it any new sensations.
Get your hips moving.
The way your body moves when you masturbate is probably very different from the way it moves when you’re having sex with someone else. Many men don’t move at all when they masturbate. Try to move your hips when you masturbate, simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Notice how moving your hips in different ways can bring you closer to, and at times take you farther away from, the point of orgasm.
Use different hand strokes.
Most men learn early on that a vigorous stroke does the trick. This intense up and down stimulation usually ends in a good orgasm. But there are dozens of other strokes that each bring with them different sensations, and different orgasms. Roll your penis in between your hands, moving your hands up and down your shaft. Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and down. Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.
Explore your shaft.
While most of the nerve endings on the penis are at the head, and specifically the frenulum, many men will have spots on their shaft that are unusually sensitive. Try putting one hand at the base of your penis and press it towards your body while experimenting with different hand strokes along the shaft of your penis. Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.
Reach around, yourself.
For many men the balls (testicles) are a very sensitive area that responds well to feelings of touch and pressure. Take your forefinger and thumb and make them in a circle at the top of your scrotum. Gently tug on your scrotum as your masturbating. This is both a way to prevent you from ejaculating and a way to extend sexual feelings in your body. Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling, scratching, and rubbing.
Check out the neighborhood.
While the penis and scrotum tend to be the epicenter of masturbatory attention, if you’re looking to open things up a bit, be sure to take a tour of some other nearby areas. The perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, is very sensitive to pressure and massage, and rubbing it provides external prostate stimulation. Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the anus, both externally and by using a finger for penetrat
28 responses so far ↓
1 Евгений // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
No
2 PJ // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
No.
3 Alec W // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
no lol u teach urself one day when ur in the bathtub cleaning urself with soap XD
4 FoxxPyre // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
no…
5 whoagirl xD // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
i dont think so.
rofl.
6 Katie Brown // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
WHAT? nooo lol
7 nona // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
YES
8 SPUD // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
Its only taught to wankers
9 bookish // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
Are you kidding? Of course not. (I've worked in elementary and secondary schools–they are not teaching this, no matter what Fox News might say.)
10 Roula M // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
lol no.. why u asking?8-)
11 Steve C // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
Rub your thing until it swings.
12 Steve // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
yezzirr…im in it right now
13 Ja P // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
dont be stupid
14 Madrox // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
No, they don’t. And would you really want to learn that in school?
15 tekkenfreek236 // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
. . .
No, why would they teach that in schools? It’s something you have to learn yourself.
16 SB // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
If it’s true, then this country is closer to being doomed than I thought
17 kathm // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
lol..nope
18 i luv penguins =0p // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
ahahah, ummm no dont think so
19 Monique S // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
I was never taught masturbation in schools. But I was one of those fortunate ones who went to a school that taught abstenance only. Worked out great for our family, all of my sisters got pregnant before hitting 18 as did half of the cheerleading squad. Huh, maybe those pro sex education people have a point?
20 Airekemen // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
They certainly don’t teach you it!
Whether or not schools choose to cover what it *is* is a different matter, and solely up to the school in question.
21 Hipto // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
I studied it in college. Got good at it and stayed single.
22 owenkluth // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
here in atlanta they do… 8====D
23 Mark H // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
No, But with the way chicks dress now they might as well. J/K. I just hate the way parent dress their kids like prosti-tots.
24 Bryan J // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
No But if u need to know how to masturbation hear how.
Make time for more than a quickie.
Most guys first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t trying to finish quick before someone interrupts.
Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune into your body.
Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of guys do, and while porn can be great, it also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you from what’s actually happening in your body. You don’t need to throw the porn away, but for a few times, masturbate without porn, and objectify yourself for a change!
Do a…dry…run through.
Bad pun aside, it’s a good idea to try the above suggestions, and then just masturbate as you normally would. As you do this pay attention:
Changes in your breathing: Does it become shallow and quick, slower and deeper?
Changes in your body: is there tension in some places, and relaxation in others? Is this the same every time you masturbate?
How does it feel just before you have an orgasm?
How does it feel as you orgasm, and immediately post-orgasm?
Time to switch it up.
Men learn early in their lives the most effective way to get themselves off. And most never waver from the utilitarian approach to self love. But sex is less like a well oiled machine, and more like a chaotic food fair, where there is an endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetites. So it’s time to throw a wrench in the works and shake up your routine. Try any combination of the following suggestions:
Does your left hand know what your right hand is doing?
Do you always use the same one hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If you’re among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be off, it’s almost like sex with someone new for the first time. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an old hand some tricks.
Experiment with positions.
If you aren’t an experimental type, it’s time to start. If you’re used to masturbating lying down on your back, try sitting up. If you normally sit in a chair, try standing, or kneeling. As with all these changes, this might feel ridiculous at first, and you’ll probably go back to old faithful, but see what masturbation feels like in different positions, and notice if it brings with it any new sensations.
Get your hips moving.
The way your body moves when you masturbate is probably very different from the way it moves when you’re having sex with someone else. Many men don’t move at all when they masturbate. Try to move your hips when you masturbate, simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Notice how moving your hips in different ways can bring you closer to, and at times take you farther away from, the point of orgasm.
Use different hand strokes.
Most men learn early on that a vigorous stroke does the trick. This intense up and down stimulation usually ends in a good orgasm. But there are dozens of other strokes that each bring with them different sensations, and different orgasms. Roll your penis in between your hands, moving your hands up and down your shaft. Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and down. Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.
Explore your shaft.
While most of the nerve endings on the penis are at the head, and specifically the frenulum, many men will have spots on their shaft that are unusually sensitive. Try putting one hand at the base of your penis and press it towards your body while experimenting with different hand strokes along the shaft of your penis. Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.
Reach around, yourself.
For many men the balls (testicles) are a very sensitive area that responds well to feelings of touch and pressure. Take your forefinger and thumb and make them in a circle at the top of your scrotum. Gently tug on your scrotum as your masturbating. This is both a way to prevent you from ejaculating and a way to extend sexual feelings in your body. Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling, scratching, and rubbing.
Check out the neighborhood.
While the penis and scrotum tend to be the epicenter of masturbatory attention, if you’re looking to open things up a bit, be sure to take a tour of some other nearby areas. The perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, is very sensitive to pressure and massage, and rubbing it provides external prostate stimulation. Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the anus, both externally and by using a finger for penetrat
25 gentlgodis // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
No, that would be pretty gross. lol
26 elham j // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
i don’t think so! but perhaps there is school that they teach your subject!
27 enricosnt // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
do you talk about philosophy when you do sex with your partner?
28 Mamapie2u // Dec 2, 2008 at 11:20 am
It’s a daily after-school extracurricular activity.
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