When me and my husband have sex…i know i cum just because of the texture and the amount…but i dont feel it. i have only had sex with my husband and it happened for the first time a year ago.
everyone says when you have an orgasm you’ll know…but i dont notice. i mean i do enjoy sex but i dont get the amazing feeling everyone talks about….and i sooo want it. we’ve tried almost every position that is comfortable…lol help!!
EDIT:
is it just a rush or can it happen for a minute or so? and i know people say that if feels like you have to urniate…and i have had that feeling…so i push? like i am about to urinate or does it just happen
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6 responses so far ↓
1 camberscb // Nov 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
It doesn’t sound as if you’re having one. You would definitely know it and feel it.
2 love&kindness // Nov 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
every women’s orgasm is different. as long as u are having one and u notice the tingly feeling then that is ok. my orgasm is not strong all the time and on some days it is depending on how horny i am ( sorry for the info) but no two women orgasm are the same.
3 I am a wicked // Nov 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
Everyone orgasms diffrently okay but I think that every single person will feel shakey and out of control it feels AMAZING!
4 PTownRoses // Nov 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
Having an increased amount of wetness doesn’t mean you’ve had an orgasm. You KNOW when you have an orgasm. Sex is incredibly pleasurable even when you don’t have an orgasm, but there is NO WAY you can have one and not notice. That is about as realistic as giving birth and not noticing it ;). You need to stimulate your clitoris, positions usually don’t make a difference. Most women don’t come through penetration alone, and most have their first orgasm through masturbation because it has more to do with you knowing the right things to do to stimulate yourself. You should get a vibrator and use it for clitoral stimulation. You can even do this while having sex, practice, practice, and eventually you will have one.
5 Carrie J // Nov 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
People are right. The feelings associated with orgasm are of such intense pleasure that no one has to ask if they've had one. They do know. To feel a man inside you is pleasurable, but unless you are getting clitoral stimulation, you probably won't climax. I rarely climax during regular sex. Oral sex, vibrators, manual stimulation by a partner have all done it for me in the past. A woman does not have to climax during the act of intercourse. There are many other ways. I once read about a woman that liked to hump against her husband leg after sex to achieve orgasm to climax. She said it was fun for her and her partner. I've incorporated that into my sex life at times. You need to be open and honest with your man and have him work with you for maximum pleasure.
6 vicky34pa // Nov 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
I only started having them this past yr. I am married too and I know it’s not nice to say but was sort of sick of waiting to have one during sex… so I bought a toy. I know some men don’t like this and my husband didn’t either.. but once i started having them by myself I started to during sex as well. I don’t know how but it took that to sort of turn on a switch.. and I don’t regret it at all. It’s just not fair that men get to so easily and quickly and we don’t.
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