Sexual Ask

why is it that when you orgasm after masturbating….why is it that you feel this weird, awkward almost guilty feeling?….

and why does that guilty feeling last only 10 mins……?
id like to add im a MALE!
yeah you maybe right….because when im masturbating and am thinking or fantasizing …the person in my mind turns me on…..then at the point of orgasm …..she quickly fades from HOT AND ATTRACTED…..to WEIRD AND AWKWARD AND UN INTERESTING

but just for 10 mins!

When I was younger I found out that when I masturbated I would clinch down on my penis and let the ejaculation build pressure and then let go. I used to do this a lot. Also I found that my orgasm would be greatest when I would tuck my penis between my legs and rub it til it went off then I would hold it there til I stood up and all the ejaculate would come out. My question is that this is no lie i used to do this and would this somehow affect my fertility in the long run? I havent done this in about 4 to 5 years and I am now married and me and the wife have been trying to have a baby for about 9 months now with no luck. Could things that I did earlier becoming back to haunt me now?

Ok i know this is gross and im sorry but i’m a little scared. I am 18 and a virgin but i finger myself sometimes and have noticed something in my vagina…its like right up there and feels like a hardish chunk of muscle or something? I cant make my fingers go any further…it doesnt hurt and i dont feel too tight…i can fit 2 there (am i loose as well- iv only fingered myself like 3 times before) i have had the cervical cancer injections and if i can finger myself without it hurting my cherry would have already been popped right- it isnt that far back? help thanks
Thank you all- generally the same answer i am feeling alot better about this now

ok so here it is.. i had sex for the first time 2 years ago and the first time it lasted not even 5 min because it hurt really bad and the 2nd time it lasted not even 4 min it just hurt! and i have not had sex since then! its now two years! and i use tampons yes. but i was wondering will it feel like tight? you know like a virgins vagina tight and hard to put penis thru? someone help!

dark black scabs

I can do pretty much everything
(bow n arrow, middle split, right split, left split, you know name it)
My friend told me that the more flexible you are the looser you are gonna be so it wont hurt as much during sex.

Is this true?

Ok this IS a serious question! Ok so like I am 16 years old and have been dating this boy since I was 15, we are like totally in love and now that we are both 16 its legal to have sex… so we have been talking about it a lot and we know we want to do it, the problem is he doesn’t know that I am hermaphrodite… i know it sounds crazy but its true. Does anybody have any suggestions on how to break it to my BF? or any thing else of help? Please this is very important!

hi any one suggested me this http://optionbiotechonline.com/products/erexium.htm for penis enhancer pills, i am trying and i m benefited also, any one there who faced this problem can suggest me any more…

Ok I have recently started seeing someone new and his penis is a bit diffferent size and shape-wise to my past parteners. His penis isnt as big as i have had, about average sized, but it is really quite wide. We had sex for the frist time together the other day and afterwards i bled. It didnt stop until the next day and this worried me. I kinda guesed it might have just been because he was wider than im used to? since then i havent bled when we had sex but hurts at first. I have had this problem of it hurting before but its usually fine after a few minutes so i guess thats ok. sorry to gabble on. Thanks in advance for any advice you can give me =)
We have a lot of foreplay before hand
: P
Tracyj..Breaking up with him is not an option. I care about him

The warts are on my pubic area above my penis. My doctor tells me the virus can only be transmitted through skin to skin contact with the warts, and it’s not carried in the semen, but I’m not sure he knows what he’s talking about. Can I still have sex without a condom if the girl avoids touching the wart area? I really don’t want to have to wear a condom to receive oral sex, but I don’t want to transmit the virus if I don’t have to either. How do I prevent this stupid disease from ruining my sex life?

ok, so i have the peeing feeling before i have to orgasm, and i was wondering how long it takes before this sensation goes away. It’s really bothersome and it sometimes even hurts.

Have you?
It's not even me, my friend told me she could and that a lot of people can and i was wondering if she was telling the truth

Maturbashun, Masterbation, Mastarbashen, If you do it, and are going to ask questions about it, shouldn’t you at least have to be able to spell it?

Just a hypothetical question. Don’t take it any further.

okay tis the story, my girlfriend wont get closer with me (genitalia) because she thinks that if she or I masturbated myself, and then Said Hand(s) were used to masturbate her, would carry sperm even through Washing my / her hands…

I can try to make it more clear,

I masturbate first night alone, next night I masturbate her

theres no way for her to get pregnant right? she thinks sperms microscopic organism that can survive through normal handwashing / sanitizer

Please someone help me ! in essence, can me masturbating and then later masturbating my partner pregnant? (mind you theres of course daily handwashing / showers in between)

Any help is appreciated,

(p.s. sperm cant survive through hands being washed with soap / sanitizer / shower right? and surely not through a normal persons day .

What does it feel like to have one? It has been asked before and received either vacuous responses or insulting ones (see http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtG1Dk_RPgfOu74xodOEjc8jzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20080208095145AAb4BdX ). However, a similarly phrased question about what it’s like to have a penis asked by a girl received a lot of responses by guys that genuinely tried to describe it: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080324122518AA37Og6

I think it’s a natural curiosity to wonder what it’s like to be the opposite sex and I don’t see why it’s only OK for a girl to ask what it’s like to have a penis but not for a guy to ask what it’s like to have a vagina. While I’m sure it’s difficult to answer, there’s no reason not to try, right?

It’s more obvious with a penis since there’s nothing mysterious about it (it’s just ‘out there’ you know, nothing hidden about it at all). A vagina seems to be an endless series of mysteries that even girls ask other girls about (whereas you never see guys asking each other about their penises).

Just a little example of how I would describe it (having a penis vs a vagina): A penis really only gets in the way when the testicles are getting crushed. That sensation is similar to what you would feel if you closed your eye and pushed on it. And, like your eyes, you only feel them when they are being squeezed. See simple, right?

I don’t think my question should really be that impossible to at least try to answer. Just try to find some other part of your body that feels similar and compare it to that.
Well sure, like a penis I'm sure you don't feel it every waking moment. It's not like we're constantly feeling any part of our body for that matter or consciously aware of it.

I guess what I'm asking is when you DO feel something what is that like? My example was testicles which are utterly simple (basically it's either pain or nothing). Surely there's more to a vagina than just feeling nothingness (and pain during periods), right?

Should say b.o.n.e.r

It’s like, literally bleeding. WTF?
it still is i don't know what to do I'm only 12.

I only had two sexual partner’s and I have a high sex drive but i never seem to cum or what ever you call it what can be wrong with me.And sometimes it feels very sore down there on the top life a knife pain not inside but on the outside i got checked and everything for dieases and i have none.
im only 17 and i get wet im not dryyyyy.trust ME
IM NOT WET I DONT NEED VIAGRA THE ONLY TIME I HAVE A ORGASM IS WEN I PLAY WITH IT BY MYSELF I OONLY HAD TWO SEX PARTNERS A GIRL AND A BOY PLEASE DONT JUDGE
I DONT HAVE NO STDS THE DOCTOR CHECKED WHEN I HAD A CHECKUP

Hey, come on already. We get the message. But Please can’t you change the freakin’ add.
LOL, Not that I resemble their remarks.
as I entered the question, the add changed to Sprint. How ironic.
It's Baaaaccccck!
LMAO, Ya'll are cruel.
now now "Why not love one another. I was making a sort of joke, don't go using your hyperkinetic powers on me…….. PLEASE……… :)~

am i normal ??
also i have a lot of pubic hair above and around my penis however i don’t have hardly any hair under my armpit, is this normal and is there any way they will grow quicker?
please help me !!

What do you mean having an orgasm?

recently i shaved my pubic hair off (from “down there”) and i got a whole lot of red bumps and things that look like pimples - very gross
what can i do to remove them?

i am 14
a girl
i live in NZ and they DONT have bikini zone stuff
my vag doesn’t itch
just it kinda hurts if you touch the bumps
thanks x
also it was my first time shaving my vagina
and also i dont think its ingrown hairs becasue its just a stubble right now

I asked a question earlier and a couple people suggested I might have UTI - so let’s say that if I do could it be a reason to cause my vagina to bleed?

Okay I’ve never had anything like this before. I am a female (obviously) 26 years old. Late on Sunday I noticed that toward the end of urination a sensation, not bad or anything, almost like a tickle. It makes me feel like I have to keep going to the bathroom, but I’m done. Also when I wipe I notice a pinkish discharge from my vagina. I didn’t know what was going on, but hope it was just nothing. I just went to the restroom and while the urge to continue to urinate is still there, this time I had a blood red discharge, just like if I had my period- only I just got done with that almost two weeks ago. There was a tiny bit of something in it- just like if I did have my period.
So I am kind of freaked out. What’s wrong with me???
I feel like I should elaborate. So I was looking online and one of the suggestions is an STD and I’m pretty confident that is not my case, I’ve been married for over a year plus been with (and only with) my husband since I was 18 years old. Also, unless I am now getting paranoid by seeing the blood I might have some really minor cramps. But, I could just be worrying myself into feelings something that’s not there.
I am positive that it is from my vagina- I can sit on the toilet and pad some t.p. when not going to the bathroom and all that will be there is blood- like when I have my period. But I don't.

a friend of mine has had a prostatectomy which has left him with a bit of urinary incontinence. His wife would like to have oral sex, but is bothered by the urine and flavored condoms aren’t really flavored. Would a ring keep the urine in?
a **ck ring goes around the base of the penis and keeps the blood from going back into the guy's body. I'm wondering if it constricts enough to stop the blood flow, if it would stop urine flow too. or semen too.

I am a 42 yrs male. My pressure is 147/90, I know a little bit high. But is it ok to have sex and masturbate? or harmful for my pressure

I get these red bumps around my vagina on my legs and on the top of it..they itch most of the time and i usually dont get them until like a day after shaving..what is this and how do i get rid of them?

I’ve had these bumps before and i thought it was just a yeast infection. I put plain yogurt on the opening of my vagina and they stopped itching and being sore they got alot less red too, but never really went away. My vagina went back to feeling completley normal, but the bumps were still sort of there just smaller and not painful. They seem to apprear after rough sex. Ive done it protected everytime so im not to worried about it being some sort of STD, but id like a little more information on it. What are they? Should i be worried? How can i get them to go away completley? Becuase they first few times i had sex i was fine ? No bumps or anything. But the bumps just started coming up the last 2 times I’ve had sex. The first time i got them in October they were worse than they are now. They were more itchy red and sore. But thats the 1st time I’d had rough sex. Now its November and i have them again after vigerous sex. Is it from the increased friction ? Or am i alergic to latex. I do shave just putting that out there to see if it would help you guys answer lol.

Thanks :]

My penis is only 2 inches when erect. Is this normal? I’m positive something is wrong.

need answers please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i heard that when you lick or get down on a women you could get herpes/stds or aids i wanna know if its true

and nothing “white: on top, its painful, wondering if I need to go to DR? Its been 2 days and has not has gone away. I tried warm washclothes and sqeezing it, but it hurts so bad

And I do know its true because I’ve been eye witness to 2 asian men in that way lol One was a friend, another a coworker who got drunk and decided to persue me lol They were both at most 4 1/2 to 5 inches, one was skinny (in girth) and the other (kind of thick) Needless to say, I didn’t sleep with them or anything like that, I just had to run fast and get away, didn’t want to laugh and say “okay its true!” But anyways, what’s the reason (scientifically or naturally) they are smaller? I don’t believe its the height thing, there are short men with big ones lol
lol and no i am not emotionally hurt by an asian man…PLEASE, most of them are really nice, i am mixed (black and latin) and for some reason i get pursued by them (maybe its the area i live in) but I just cant get over the fact they were small, now i know there are exceptions, but so far i haven't seen any lol but anyways thanks for the answers!

i’m 23 years old, i was in a relationship years ago with a girl who made it a point to let me know i was nothing special. i was 5.75″ at the time, since then i’ve grown and i’ve been in a relationship with a girl for 2-1/2 years. i’ve been 7″ long and 5.5″ in circumference the whole time. i remember the look of shock the first time we did it. i subconsciously thought the worst. but nothing was ever said about it.

my first question is what does it really mean?
i was told if nothing is said than its small.

i regrettably cheated on her and the girl i cheated on her with was ecstatic about my size. though it didn’t feel good for her to tell me.

Am i still small? what does her saying nothing mean?

i don’t shave my vagina
im a virgin
they don’t itch or hurt or anything
could it be from wearing a pad?
becuase i am on my period right now.
please help i am really scared it’s stds or something!
but i’m a virgin!
so please help

I’ve had these bumps before and i thought it was just a yeast infection. I put plain yogurt on the opening of my vagina and they stopped itching and being sore they got alot less red too, but never really went away. My vagina went back to feeling completley normal, but the bumps were still sort of there just smaller and not painful. They seem to apprear after vigorous rough sex. Ive done it protected everytime so im not to worried about it being some sort of STD, but id like a little more information on it. What are they? Should i be worried? How can i get them to go away completley?
I've had these bumps before and i thought it was just a yeast infection. I put plain yogurt on the opening of my vagina because it helps with yeast infections, and they stopped itching and being sore they got alot less red too, but never really went away. My vagina went back to feeling completley normal, but the bumps were still sort of there just smaller and not painful. They seem to apprear after vigorous rough sex. I've done it protected everytime so im not to worried about it being some sort of STD, but id like a little more information on it. What are they? Should i be worried? How can i get them to go away completley?

But i didnt get them the first few times i had sex. Its been the last two times. It happened for the 1st time in October it was worse than it is now, alot more sore and itchy, but that was the fisrt time we really had rough sex. Now i have them again and its November and we had rouch sex again haha. So is it from the increased friction ? Or what ?

I slept over a friends house last night. We got drunk and eventually I passed out. When I woke up this morning my pants were unzipped and I had glitter all over my penis. What do you think could’ve happened?

Serious answers only

i hav been masturbating 4 about 2 years and im getting bored[it still feels great but i wanna try sumin new]. most people say its watevr satisfys u and wat feels good, so wat r these things so i can try them. i use the normal technique…im 14 and would like answers from ppl of all ages plz.
i also hardly ever use porn mainly my imajination due to me livin in a house with my whole family… thx

its not thrush, i no that but its really embarrasing? like a burning itch?!

a frnd told me that the size of the vaginal opening, is the same size with the female mouth. is it true?

I have a conffession to make. When I was 8 years old, and my sister was 10. One night she was sleeping in bed and I had the sudden urge of curiousity to look at what a vagina looks like. So i lifted up her PJ’s and looked at her vagina. Now my question is, is this a bad thing?

there is a small lump on the inside of my vagina on the left side not too far inside. it doesnt hurt to touch it but it wasnt there before. the outside of my vagina is itchy and i am on birth control but it is not possible for me to have an STD. is this bad? how can i make it go away?
its on the bottom part, not the top

HOW THE FUCK DO I GET RID OF THIS PROBLEM!IM 13 AND I NEVER SEEN A THING LIKE THIS IN MY LIFE!

Is this true?
I read this once some where, and im just curious because my new boyfriend is 6 foot 3 or 4. haha.

Does height really make a difference?
x

Ok, I know this isn’t the nicest question, but if anyone has an answer please do. I have always had trouble having orgasms. I have a bullet, and today I came like ten times and I’m still horny. At first I was happy but now it’s getting irritating. This isn’t a joke, Why is this happening? I don’t want to be like this at college tomorrow. Usually when I come it hurts afterwards and i’m satisfied, so why is this happening?
Any way I can get rid of it till I have sex? I won't see my guy until Friday?

Im 21 and I have never had an orgasm…I know that this is a common thing amongst women but I dont want to be in thie “group” ne more. I am VERY satisfied sexually, which is y I am so confused as to why I cant orgasm…ne1 have any suggestions? Or is this the case for ne1 else besides me??

Ok so my penis head has always been quite sensitive, for whatever reason i never reali thgt about it i just coped with it

I have had sex twice, both times my penis was over sensitive and i know i coudnt actuali finsih. It hurts with oral & sex

i read this answer on another question on this site and was wandering if anyone knew if he was right, as it sounds like it could be, and if theres anything else i can do to help it

“Your glans (penis head) may just be overly sensitive, which is fairly common in many uncircumcised men. It’s also fairly easy to “fix.”

Just pull back your foreskin and expose the glans to the air for a few minutes a day. It doesn’t even have to touch anything, just having it exposed to the air will help. Over the span of a month or so, you should slowly get used to the sensitivity so that touching won’t be so uncomfortable.

Also, when you take a shower, be sure to pull back your foreskin and wash under it with water and mild soap. If it’s too sensitive at first to touch, just letting water run over it is enough. The point is to expose your glans more and get it more used to being touched directly.

After a month or so, you shouldn’t have these problems anymore with painful sensitivity. Good luck with whatever you try!”

Any help from ppl with same experience or a doctor. And i def have not got any STD’s!

how do you make you whole body feel good when you masturbate?

Since i’m a very bad test taker, I was told that masturbating the night before a test would help me out. Is it true?

how can i make her stop
and what are bad things that could happen to her

can anyone tell me the way to remove vagina hairs by waxing.In which way should i wax..thanx

Hi, I’m about to have a bath. And I like to masturbate inthe bath with a sharpie. I am 14 and a girl. Is this normal? Safe?
I mean with the lid on and not the lid side - teh smooth side. >__>

And any tips?
Large. Like pretty round. Well I haven't had you knwo what so I can't fit large items in there yet. So I'd say 2-3 inches.

Okay Am Underaged Have No Condoms , Vibrators , Shower Heads , Cucumbers , Bannanas Or Carrots . Please Nothing Foul Like A Phone.

how much dos it get?
i mena liek how much things can b put in it. i wanan knoe plz.

I have tried getting her a set of douches and sprays for her birthday, but her odor has gotten worse. How do i tell her? I would need a gas mask to ‘ go down’ but I refuse to even perform oral on her at all anymore.

My penis is really hard and swollen, nearly four times it’s normal size. It throbs too.

What’s going on.

i’m 15 , turning 16 soon(just about legal), and i’m getting slightly worried. i know that the average size for an erect penis is like 6 inches or something, but to me that just doesnt seem right, for example when watching amateur porn the guys nob is always well more than 6 inches, and my flacid length is terrible. should i be worried

like in “hostel” part 2 and in “the brown bunny”..can u list sum movies like these?

i have a bent Penis, but it frustrates me and embarasses me before a girl. who can direct me a solution of how to get rid of it? i do not want operations or surgeries. please help me. i am worried and having shame.

I’m trying to word this to where I won’t get reported. This isn’t for me being perverted, I really want some suggestions.

I’m open to anything, I mean ANYTHING.

Please provide websites.

i like masturbate ALL the time, and when i try to stop i cant stop thinking about it. i hate sex, i dont ever get to orgasm and it doesnt really feel like anything to me. help!

I have experienced tightness in my Vagina as well as a swelling that forms especially when am stressed. Even though my mind is too ready for sex , the vagina isnt in that i cant get wet easily that’s when the swelling crops up temporarily and in that swelling it contains fluids eventually it disappears. As a result either my husband gets cuts on his penis or i get a burning sensation what can i do .

i am not sexually active at all.
the lump is skin colored, you can barely tell there’s a lump there.
it’s like an inch away from my bikini line.
it doesn’t hurt, it’s just there.
it’s not real tender either, i guess a little tender but more hard than tender.

how serious is it???

I have brownish black stuff comeing out of my vagina and i have my period every six months. A little blood came out too. What is and is it bad?

hi so today i ya know …peed….and then after ward i had this really uncomfortable burn down there…..

would could it be?!

i’ve not had sex….. so i dont have an STD

im 14 years of age and my penis and balls have been itching a lot now there’s loads of bumps and lumps and wen i put power afterward it looks like its infected so i try to use for than 2 baths a day but it still happens now my pubic hair is itching as well what should i do

Some One help ME!

Im very worried as it has not grown since i was 7, should i consider surgery.

Besides from it being enjoyable, does it serve a purpose?

okay, this been happening since i have been sexual active
after, i get off my period! my vagina holds in odor, like ion, its not a fish smell, its like a weird smell,
but wen i wipe my hand and smell, my hand it dont smell like nothing,
it be my panties or panti liner!

whats the problem, help me out!!
cuz i hate this smell!

i dont have an std, that i no of, i am not having weird discharges,
just the normal flow!

I am only 4 weeks along and I’ve been having short intermittent shooting pains in my vagina every now and then. I remember getting these with my first pregnancy with my daughter, but it seemed like it was later in my pregnancy.

dear friends please suggest in a right way if u can. i am really depressed because of the size of my penis. my penis size is 13c.m. is it normal? and how can i increase it?

I have always wondered about this. Sometimes I imagine being a woman and fantasize about having sexual intercourse but I always fail to see the attraction of doing it if I dont have a penis. I mean its like you are having a hole down there like a mouth which doesnt really give any good feeling when in contact with something else.

i am 19 and my penis is bent like that of banana when erect..Why is this so?? Whether it will be liked by girls..BTW it is 6inches when erect? please help to fix this

thanx in advance.
best one will get 10pts

Just a little statistic i heard, trying to figure out if its true.
During sex. I know its not age dependant. Im asking if most women had an orgasim before age 24.
Through penetration.

I find this is strange phenomenon that having more sex partners does not make you a better lover.

You’d think it was the opposite…more parnters = you’re a better lover.

I once heard this from a friend who used to work out a lot (though I’m starting to question the validity of it)

Is it true that if a male masturbates often he would lose testosterone levels in his body and therefore not be able to gain muscle as fast as he normally would if he wasn’t masturbating?

It is not bumpy and not on my lips, but further down. It goes about to my panty line and feels almost like a burn. any suggestions?
It is not bumpy and not on my lips, but further down. It goes about to my panty line and feels almost like a burn. any suggestions?

its not due to shaving. it's not a yeast infection because it is outside of my vagina. it's on the skin outside. it does not itch. it's not razor burn.
I tried wearing just cotton panties and try to wear just white ones as often as possible now. I got a new body wash not too long ago, but i cant remember if that was before or after i got this rash. I try to keep it as clean as possible and try to use these little wipes (like baby wipes) and neosporin as often as possible… but nothing seems to help. should i switch soap and not put any medicines on it or use the wipes? incase that was the problem?

I have a red burning rash on the outside of my vagina. It doesn’t really itch too often and it’s not bumpy and it is below the lips and down towards my butt crack. It is tender to wipe and burns otherwise. It looks a little swollen and very red. It goes out to about my panty line and is just very painful. It’s not bumpy though. any suggestions?

My partner and I have been together for eleven months. We have been trying to have sex for our first time (1st time for both). We’re both feeling the moment, but I can’t seem to get it in. What am I doing wrong? Is her vagina too small? How can we fix this?

Mine erects upward and I’ve seen some guys who have a downward erection. How do you do that? I want to try it but I have no idea how to even start to get it to erect downward. Also, it would look cool to my friends that I can make it erect both upwards and downwards.

This girl in my class wants to fool around and she has had sex a couple of times, how would she react to a uncircumsized penis when all the penises she has seen are circumsized?

How long is the average penis?

okay. im 16 years old. and as of the past 2.5 months. iv been having difficulty maintaining an erection and as of lately, i am barely able to get a full erection. what happened? whats wrong with me? i cant go to a doctor cuz then my parents will have to know whats wrong. please help. im a bit scared.
i have been under a lot of stress for a while now because of multiple things. could that have contributed to this?

how often do you masturbate? how much is to much? and does it affect your sex life? good or bad?

hello sir i am 25 years old male having problems of low sex desire ,pre mature ejaculation ,weal erections ,poor memory ,poor concentration and easily gets tired.i am also having low back pain which generally arises from tip of tail bone.i have discu